Who enjoys a good hard full body whipping and flogging including the genitals, when engaging in bdsm? tightly restrained so very little or no body movement is allowed . completely oiled down with body so the lash stings good. i love it. and in bdsm its not uncommon for this to be done. who else enjoys it? |
love bdsm but never have been one for sharp pain like that.. i'll pass
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Who enjoys a good hard full body whipping and flogging including the genitals, when engaging in bdsm? i would like to know if any one else does? |
| good god no. |
Is interest for bondage (BDSM) a sign of a mental abnormality? some people like BDSM practices like whipping someone or to be whipped especially men toward women , are they mentally ill? |
| As long as they desire to practice it with consenting partners there's nothing wrong with it. It becomes a problem when they force it on an unwilling partner. |
I was invited to a BDSM party recently. I went and saw lots of "whipping" and "spanking" is it legal? Was I breaking the law by being there and not stopping it? |
| It was legal as long as everyone consented to participate and there was no prostitution. Isn't this a great country??!! |
Which is a good site for getting bdsm clips? can anyone tell me a site where i can get free bdsm an dfemdom videos preferably whipping videos? |
redtube
kink.com |
BDSM whip technique websites? I would like to learn more about different whips available and the techniques and etiquette that go with each.
Can you recommend any websites or videos or books that explicitly will help me? tutorials etc?
I'm a lesbian relatively new to the BDSM scene. My girlfriend is a sub and into whips which she has gotten me using on her and other women i play with at playnights.
I would like to broaden my knowledge and improve my skills outside of my relationship with my girlfriend and outside of the playnight communities I attend before bringing them into those spaces as i have a building reputation and hierarchical position i don't want to upset by displaying lack of knowledge or confidence, but i most certainly don't want to experiment irresponsibly without help and cause hurt through ignorance.
fyi: I don't mind watching tutorials meant for straight couples. I'm aware thats where most of the material will be.
Many thanks. |
Stockroom.com has some good stuff
This is my favorite bdsm site...
collarncuffs.com/ |
Where can we get some low cost bdsm items? me and my partner want to try some bdsm. we would like to find the lewast expensive way to get the items for it. we need a master and a slave outfit a whip, a strap on, and anything else that goes with it. |
Instead of a whip, which can cut and is very dangerous, I recommend a flogger.
If this is a super one time deal, budk.com or amazon has bullwhips and catonine floggers for like $3. If you want better floggers, Ebay has them for $20, and there decent leather suedes too.
Amazon has black handcuffs with no safteys and key for $5 +$5shipping
Homedepot aka DomDepot also is the best place for hiking clips (carbiners), chains, and some soft rope. Also you can make your own spreader bars for $5.
A slave outfit is best being a collar (99cent store or petco) and a french maids out (bargain stores or conway $20)
There is no Master's outfit really. Especially not for men. For women its latex or leather, pvc, or hottopic. Ebay is your friend.
A strap on go to adameve.com and use the promo code love or babe7 or emc0001, look online, codes wil get u 50% off plus free shipping (final price will be about $10 or less) |
How can a Clueless guy trust a girl who is into BDSM if he doesn't want anything to do with that? With women who want to be the top in BDSM. How does a innocent guy know what he is getting if he wants to try dating her not being interested in things like that just a clean relationship. How do you know a animal won't go crazy. he feels like he can trust this person but when she had said a lot about chains, ropes, handcuffs, and whips, I guess it is easy to afraid. |
| What's the worst she could do? Chances are you'll have fun. |
Question for ladies who are into bdsm submissive? Do you basically beg the guy to do xyz to you.like say he has a whip or belt and asks you if you like it..do you basically say yes please give it to me? is that how submissive bdsm works? |
It really comes down to the people involved, how the Dominant likes to run things, how the submissive likes things to be run, how they connect, where they play, how they play, and what they agree on. I've been enjoying and observing BDSM for over 10 years I've seen some submissives who did everything they were told, they were in long term 24/7 relationships, they lived and breathed for their Master. At the same time I've also seen submissives who are really just spoiled little cretins who have more of a sugar daddy than an actual Dom or Master.
The healthy BDSM relationship of a Dom/sub requires some form of agreement (contract not required) regarding what will take place, how far each partner will go, what is ok, what really isn't ok, what each partner is willing to try, what should be avoided, what each partner really likes, etc. This agreement must also include a safeword that is agreed upon again each time just to make sure. The safeword used to stop all action should one partner need to stop without question or hesitation. In many cases yes the submissive can beg for something however it's often more of the Dom already knows what they want and they give it as a reward.
The role of the submissive is to serve the Dom mentally and physically while receiving pleasure from being in a submissive role and pleasing the Dom/Master. The role of the Dominant is to control and care for the submissive mentally and physically while receiving pleasure from being in the Dominant role and being served by the submissive.
There are plenty of other places to find information, some are listed below including one website which I feel accurately describes how a healthy and supportive BDSM relationship should work for a Master and slave (there is a difference between slave and submissive).
Finally, may I recommend you really read through the answer that begins with "In scene, yes, they do, if that works for both of you", this person knows what they're talking about. As for the answer that is simply "Protip: Safe words are for wusses." it's answers such as this that are the reason why so many submissives are physically and emotionally harassed, abused, raped, even tortured to the point of long term physical and mental damage. |
Is it not hypocritical for feminists to accuse all men of being abusers and then participate eagerly in BDSM? So on one hand feminists claim that all men are abusers and on the other hand during, "frisky time" , they abuse men?
I suppose these men "enjoy" getting whipped (literally) because feminists have brain washed them into despising their OWN GENDER?
Isn't that SICK? |
There is a difference between consensual activities that take place during a BDSM relationship, and actual abuse, which is inflicted on one person by another against their will.
However, it is silly to say that all men are abusers anyway, and any feminist who does say that is daft. |