My dad is a ******* *** hole? my dad is a ******* idiot. after your 10 years old. he just keeps me from doing what i really want to do. as of right now im being forced to go to a university of california and i dont want to. and he gets ******* pist off if i get a B in my classes and im ******* tired of it. And i dont care if any of you say "just deal with it" i cant, its so ******* annoying its been like this for 5 years. Im stuck in my room for the whole day after school doing work and spend most of the time day dreaming. I tried having a "mature" conversation with him like 1000+ times i try like every week for the last 5 years and it always ends in his favor no matter what. and honestly i felt like killing my self alot. but im not going to because its ******* stupid.everyday i feel like someone is squeezing my heart, the feeling you get when your crying but i cried so much that my heart just hurts.And no i dont want to get a separation from him because my mom is still with him and shes chill(ever since she got some mental illness) and if i leave her she would be heart broken.I have two years left till i leave, and when i do im most likely going to drop out of college and find something that i want. I dont want to lose to my dad, I want to have it my way. The world sucks. And i dont want to be successfull for my self, i dont want to. you only get one life and i dont want to spend it having to go to school and get a job that i hate, i honestly think all jobs suck.... life is just unfair...YEA I KNOW ALOT OF PEOPLE HAVE IT WORSE THAN ME but I dont give a **** they should do something about it and live their life how they want to. |
The real problem is you're feeling kind of helpless and hopeless and frustrated. That, sweetie, is depression. You may express yourself with anger, but what you feel under everything is sorrow.
Sounds like there's a lot going on, plus you are concerned with your mom. Don't you think you need to get some of this off your chest by talking with a counselor? Really. Put it in perspective. Let go of what you can't do anything about. Figure what your mom needs from you, maybe your dad, too, but most of all what you need to keep from feeling that life sucks.
If you have to be there another two years, try to make it easier on yourself by talking with a counselor. Sometimes we can't see the forrest for the trees and they can help us simplify the complicated.
You won't believe this, but life doesn't suck. Oh, it sucks sometimes, but there are moments when it's so beautiful that it lifts your heart up to the clouds. You have to hang in there and hunt for an answer to the problem.
Part of the answer for some of us is to find the job that we love so much that we'd do it for free. (Mine is writing and art. I had to search long and hard for that answer. It's called following your bliss. Read Joseph Campbell and his explorations of myth. Cool stuff.)
I wish you good luck. Please think about talking with someone. I don't think you will regret it. God bless. |
I Need Help With This *** Hole I Call A Friend!? Hey everyone, for the past 3 years my "friends mom would drive me and him to school every morning. Well over the years... my hate for my so called "friend" has grown more and more. At the moment, I can't wait for this year to finish, since after this year I wont need to get a ride anymore. I know the school years almost over, but I cant stand it. I hate this guy and he hates me to. He is always being a ******* *** hole to me and my friends, and when I try and stick up for myself, he just makes fun of me more. He called me and everyone else little babys. I dont know why. How the **** am I supposed to live with this **** for the rest of this school year? I need advise, what should I do. Also, there is no other way of getting to school. So what should I do? |
| Just don't talk to him, ever. Ignore him and eventually he'll ignore you too. Hopefully. |
OH MY ******* GOD DAMMIT SON OF A ***** *** CLOWN MOTHER ***** A CUPCAKE IN YOUR **** HOLE WITH A PLUNGER!?!? AWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! **** BURGERS ON ****** **** COVERED BUNS I ******* HATE PEOPLE WHO ARE JUST SO ******* RETARDED THEY THINK THEY'RE KING SHITTY Mc.SHITFACE QUEEN OF THE ***** WITH THEIR LITTLE JOHNY SON OF ***** WHO GOES TO "SPECIAL" SCHOOL YOU LITTLE FAGGIN ***** *** MONGER THINK YOUR THE TIP OF THE PROVERBIAL DICK IN THE VAG OF THE TOWN TELLIN ME TO MOW MY LAWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! **** YOUR DEAD SISTER IN THE *** YOU INBRED TURKEY PORKIN COCK WRANGLER!!!!!!! ****!!!!!!!!! |
| ....ummm....is there a question in there somewhere? |
What should I do Im 18 and got a ticket for being intoxicated in a public place? I live in canada and the drinking age is 19, I went to an all ages event and I showed the bouncer my ID which says im born 06/15/88 and he let me into the drinking area. I got pretty drunk not too bad tho. I was there for about 3 or 4 hours when I steped outside the bar/club for a minute. Befor I left I asked one of the bouncer will I be able to get back in and he said I had 15 minutes until they wernt letting anyone else in the club/bar. so I steped outside to talk to my buddies for a minute and when I tired to get back in one of the bouncers said I couldent get back in, I said you have to be joking right which he wasent so i called him a ******* *** hole and the he puched me and I snaped,so I grabed him and threw him to the ground and people had to get me off him them I totally lost it, just swearing and calling all of the bouncers on. cops came I ran, they got me, and gave me 2 tickets for treaspasing and being drunk in a public place.
WHAT SHOULD I DO? THEY SERVERD ME UNDERAGED? |
Hon, they served alcohol to an age guy. BUT YOU'RE THE ONE THAT DRANK IT.
So, your being drunk in a public place is your fault.
Your mouthing off to the bouncers who would not let you back in (rightfully, since you acknowledge you're age) is also your fault.
Picking a fight with a bouncer, who was looking out for your own good in the first place? Also your fault.
What SHOULD you do? You SHOULD go to jail and have to pay a big fine for your stupidity. Maybe that'll be a lesson learned. And then years from now, when you're -hopefully- a mature adult, you can laugh about this incident that you brought upon yourself. |
Ok i want a good antivirus so suggest me the good ones to kill those mother ******* virus? Please suggest some really good ones which won't delete the damn system files and make me reinstall the windows **** again and again the *** hole spy doctor deleted all the system files and installed new ones etc so suggest ______________________________ |
| www.tellmemark.com they have some info there there several programs that you can download like security essentials and other simple ways to turn off viruses |
On Mass Effect 2 why are your squad members so ******* retarted? Im fighting Tarek, the guy in the gunship, and when hes busy spraying his machine gun my people regularly come out of cover on no sheild and try to attack. Obviously this leads them to get ****** up the ******** very easily. What i want to know is: where Bioware smoking crack when they made this shitty game? or are they just a bunch of Sadistic bellends who enjoy watching their fans suffer? |
| I know how you feel, but I also understand it from a programmers standpoint. The fractal analysis (or preparing for every imaginable outcome) becomes impossible to anticipate during combat with a hostile that rapidly changes position. Occasionally, the best guess for the AI allies is to engage. Obviously, allies with volition would be optimal because you can communicate with them, plan strategy, and they would be smart enough to find cover while firing from behind it. But when that's not possible or apparent, it clears its buffer of commands and reverts to a more simplistic approach - hack and slash. |
Why cant ******* mexicans go back to where they came from? the whole ******* US is full of ******* mexican BITCHES theyre a bunch of *** holes and i am sooo being racist because im tired of all there **** cant they go back to theyre ******* dump full of **** where they call home |
| LOL. U mad bro? |
Is my dad being an *** hole or am I? I have a 95.6 average and would like to do MMA. He let me do MMA for 3 months prior but after my membership at my local club expired he refuses to renew it because I will not go to sunday school. I have never smoked, done drugs, been sent to the office or do anything bad except please his sorry ***. Every time I do something impressive academically he goes to brag to his friends as if he was there and is the next coming of Jesus. When I ask him if I can do something he tells me to go do my homework which I clearly have done or tells me to **** off and calls me stupid and stuff (right after he brags to his friends about me) and tells me if I don't raise my grades up I will ******* work at McDonald wtf?!!! I don't even have a phone because his as broke it and its not money problems because he is a scientist and also has an M.D.,D.V.M and Ph.D. Who is at fault here??? another reason is because i wont go to sunday school for 4 hours every sunday because i have already done so for 8 years and i have never agreed with the religion but i still have to go!!!!! |
He is being unreasonable, but some people are touchy about religion and they can't accept that their guyren have different views. Unfortunately, as the others have said, his house, his rules. If you want to stand up for your principles, you will have to miss out on MMA. However, I believe you are doing the right thing by voicing your objections to religion now. If you were to just go along with Sunday school attendance, it would be much harder for you to "come out" about your non-belief later on.
Have you tried to talk to him and explain that MMA is good for your health? In this day and age, with obesity rampant among the youth, it is unacceptable for a parent to deprive a guy of opportunities to exercise. If that will not work, can you find an alternative, i.e. if he's simply refusing to pay for lessons, can you get a part time or weekend job to pay for it yourself? |
I have an evil, racist, hippocrite, liar dad. What do I do? Hes a complete asshole. I just want to scream that he is a **** ******* *** hole and he can **** the **** up about how im such a failure because i have an 80 in math class and run away. What do i do? |
| I know you don't want to hear this but your dad probably wants the best for you. He would do alot better if he sat down and TALKED to you about the grade and any problems you might be having in math. He really needs to stop making you feel like a failure because that is not helpful to you in any way. Hang in there , it might seem like forever but you will be grown up before you know it. Good Luck. |
What can I do about these *** hole calling my girl friend a hoe? okay so like me and this girl have been going out for maybe 6 months. I ******* love her and I would do anything for her, but these guys have been calling her a hoe even to my face. Like they will be like bros before hoes *****. So annoying. And all this started by me and her kissing a lot at a party, someone went out and started rumors saying we had sex. What can I do about this? They have absolutely no respect for her and it's really pissing me off. |
| Pissing you off is their exact incentive to doing so. They want a reaction from you, which is the prime reason why bullies do what they do, and why they are good at it. They play with people's emotions getting rumors started and hurting people's feelings. The best thing to do, and I'm sorry to say this, is to just show no reaction and to not let them affect you and your girlfriend. They are a bunch of jerks and it's high school, people are bound to be spreading around rumors about sex and such, especially boys (I have a bf so I know this pretty well no way of hiding that) Anyways, It's unfortunate what has happened to you but you need to gain control of your anger and not set it off on them. Soon they will get bored and move onto their next victims. Until then, all you can do is wait... |